Controllable NPCs are created using the /npc controllable command. For tricky to mount mob types like the EnderDragon, the
/npc mount command puts you on the NPC. Otherwise, right click to mount an NPC and sneak + right click while riding to get off.
Land mobs are controlled using the standard movement controls. Sneak + left click to jump. Air mobs move towards your cursor.
To toggle between land and air you can use
/traitc controllable -g for ground and -f for flying.
Controllable NPCs also respect your NPC's speed, so you can use /npc speed 2 to go faster while mounted.